Quelling Fears In a Turbulent Economy
The first time I ever got on a plane I was young and had a fear of flying. Everyone assured me that flying was the safest way to travel, but despite my young age I viewed it as a risk vs. return scenario. Sure the chances of crashing in a car are greater, but I figured so were my chances of surviving the crash; a car crash may just be a fender-bender, but if I’m going down in a plane, I really don’t like my odds – even if my seat can be repurposed as a flotation device. With that said, no amount of convincing could quell my fearful thoughts, and at a certain point fear consumed my brain and I began to act irrationally and illogically. I was sitting next to my dad, and when the flight attendant came up and asked for our drink orders, I ordered a Coke and my dad ordered a beer. At this point, my seven-year-old brain kicked into action and I piped up, “Okay, Dad, but only have one!”
“Why?” he asked.
“Because I don’t want you to get drunk and yell at me.”
Now just to be clear, I would like to state that my father has never had a drinking or anger problem, but I’m not sure the flight attendant left the conversation with that impression. The reality was that I was scared of something outside of my control so my youthful brain concocted a tangible fear that I could control, regardless of how irrational it was. Recognizing that I was afraid and trying to calm me down, or more likely, attempting to prevent me from convincing anyone else that he had an alcohol-fueled rage problem, my father shared with me a piece of wisdom that I carry with me today. “Let me tell you about the flight attendants…” he began “when I’m on a plane, I watch the flight attendants.”
“Why?” I responded puzzled.
“Because, the flight attendants know what’s going on here, so I figure I should only be worried if they’re worried.”
That statement made sense to me: surely if there was some impending doom, the flight attendants would be among the first to know, and if they seemed calm, I should be calm too. I spent the rest of the flight carefully analyzing the demeanor and disposition of the flight attendants.
The above metaphor is one I’ve carried with me and found to be applicable to many facets of life – especially in the office environment. I think back to the days when I was an intern, fetching coffee for the people I couldn’t wait to step on during my rise to the top (just kidding, guys) – I didn’t understand the implications of things like a tight timeline, let alone how to actually gauge a timeline’s qualifications as being reasonable or unreasonable. No, I just knew that if my experienced team members thought it was possible, then it was possible and vice-versa. They had a better understanding of these things, and I trusted that their opinions on such matters were the correct opinions.
The same holds true today during the current financial turmoil we are feeling. Employees have had to watch their stocks plummet, their budgets shrink, and their peers laid off. Because of this, employees can be overcome with fear and succumb to a “survival-of-the-fittest” mentality. When this mentality takes over, employees concoct fears no matter how irrational – just as I did when I was seven – and begin to view both actions and peers as threats. This tendency towards self-survival is counter-productive in that it only hurts the team further and therefore merely reduces one’s chances of surviving a tumultuous economy. This is why the leaders of a company need to take on the role of the flight attendants. No, I don’t mean explain the intricacies of complex devices such as the seatbelt, which I’m proud to say at age seven I had no difficulty grasping. What I do mean is that we employees look up to the leaders for reassurance, and just like the flight attendant – the leaders need to set a good example by not panicking. Imagine a plane ride where a flight attendant forwent the calm “Ladies and gentleman, our captain has informed me that we’ve encountered some turbulence, so the serving of drinks will be temporarily halted while I buckle-up.” and instead sprinted to her seat screaming expletives in panic. That, of course, would not happen on a plane, so why would any leader let that happen in the office?